Baby i was born this way ..

This is an amazing song . You really have to listen to the words to know the real meaning of it. I think its inspirational and sends a great message to people who may not be conferable with themselves and who they love. Some of you may know i had a gay friend and his name was kyle. he didn't flaunt the fact that he was gay but he was proud of it and he would let you know he was. he was the most fabulous person i have even known! He was also my best friend and a very good one. I really think that its sad that some people in this world are so worried about other peoples lives. its really sad that they have enough hate for gays and lesbians that its saddens me to see them treat them with such hate. how do you think you would feel if someone told you that the one person you loved the most in the whole world was not right and was a sin, and they picked on you ,threw things at you, punched you , made fun of you at school or at work? what if the tables were turned for just one day. Everyone has their own opinion and i respect that opinion but i don't think it needs to go as far as bulling a kid to the point they take his or her own life because they could not take the hate anymore. Please stop and think the next time you see stories like this on tv and how its affecting real peoples lives and families. Kyle had a car accident a little over a year ago and i miss him everyday. i kno he would have loved this song for sure!! i am posting a slower version so you can really understand the words and get the full meaning! it really is a beautiful song!!

Take it or leave it sister!

Recently i have found myself being more of the person i used to be , and i like it! i forgot how nice it was. And what i mean by this is,..... well im not really sure lol!! i don't think i was ever mean to anyone but i had some really strong feelings against some people, and that just wasn't me at all! While i do not wish to mend things with certain people, i have learned some hard lessons from the experiences that i have had over the past few years that i will take with me forever, and that hopefully i can share with others. You cant be too nice though or the not so nice people in this world will take advantage of that, and i learned that the hard way as well! so i will be more cautious this time! ;)

I have a pretty full weekend ahead of me with lots of awesome things in store

Friday i will help my friend Tonya and her sister who owns Spoiled Rockin Kids, with a Justin Bieber red carpet event! yea i know you are super jealous :) i think this is going to be fun, and i mean who doesn't like Justin? I love his songs!! yea i said it! lol 

Saturday we are heading over to a friends house warming party for her and her boo! im super excited for her and im also excited to see some of my friends because its been way too long! im sure lots of awesome party games will be played!

until we meet again
xoxo

Girlfriends

Girlriends well, they are your rock they will be there when boys come and go. The ones that will be there at 3 A.M. when you need them the most. Will drive however long it takes to come and get you from a situation you may be in , and not say one word about it , because they support you in anything and EVERYTHING you do. The ones you can be silly with and be yourself around. Some one you can tell your secrets to and you know 100 percent they will not tell a soul. I am very thankful to have some girlfriends i can depend on for these type of things. These girls without a doubt I can count on and well, I think they are pretty awesome :). And I think every girl should have friends like these, and if you don't have one like this ......well ill be that girl for you ;)